Many people are aware that domestic violence exists, however its impact often remains unseen and unknown by many as well. Domestic violence is a subject that hits close to home in many people’s lives, but few discuss it openly.

But during the month of October, in honor of Domestic Violence Month, discussions were being held to address the issue of abuse and violence in people’s lives.

“Our nation has a moral obligation to work to prevent domestic violence and address its brutal and destructive effects,” said President George W. Bush in a White House news release.

This “moral obligation” is the reason for awareness. Domestic violence does not stop when its month of awareness ends. It is a real concern in many people’s lives every day.

“I think as young men and women you have to stand up and say ‘you know, this type of behavior isn’t right in relationships’ and support the victim fully,” said Angie Faulkner, program director of the Family Violence Program of the Family Resource Agency, an organization helping domestic violence victims in the Cleveland, Tenn. area.

Victims of domestic violence often do not realize how bad a situation can become until it has already escalated into a case of domestic violence. An awareness of that fact can help to remedy a situation before it becomes something bigger.

“As people are getting into relationships, I think they need to know the signs of abusive behaviors of someone who would be abusive,” said Faulkner. “They need to know that it’s not OK to be abused in any way, shape or form.”

Domestic violence takes various forms. According to Faulkner, domestic violence can consist of verbal, physical or sexual abuse.

It is important to remember that domestic violence is a crime and that no one deserves to be abused.

Faulkner urges people to be supportive if they suspect a friend is a victim of domestic violence. It is also important for those suffering from domestic violence to seek help.

Those suffering from domestic violence are encouraged to call the Family Violence Program’s crisis hotline at (423) 476-3886. Students interested in learning about how they can help may call Angie Faulkner at (423) 303-3525.